i want to be like that

I just received the kindest, most genuine, most encouraging and uplifting email from one of the men I most admire and respect in this world.

I used to work with this particular guy. He is an executive within the company, well respected across the industry, and certainly at the top of his class in his particular field. He is brilliant, passionate and intimidating. You don't want to sit across the table from him. Not necessarily the type of person you'd generally expect a kind, genuine, encouraging email from.

And yet in the last few years I've gotten to know this man, I've come to realize that at his core he is a person who cares deeply for other people. He is compassionate and wise. He speaks with truth into your life, directly and honestly. That's not to say he is putting on an outward front in his professional life - he really is brilliant and intimidating, and that is the result of how much he loves his job.

But it's been incredible to get to see this personal side of him the last few years. Humbling that I get to experience this side of him. And I think to myself, 'I want to be like that' - to exude such grace and encouragement and kindness to other people, and to do it without hesitation. Who am I but just a little guy in his eyes - he's an important executive - but he doesn't care... really don't think he even sees that. I'm just a friend, a brother to him. Just amazing to me.

I'm uplifted by the fact that I am encouraged by other people like this. I observe these traits and I want to see them in my own life.

I think that takes practice.